Will a Reverse Mortgage Loan Help or Hurt This Retired Couple?

7 essential questions homeowners should ask before choosing a reverse mortgage

paula and dennis arntz sit on a bench in their front yard

Paula and Dennis Arntz want to stay in their Florida house. Erika Larsen Jean Chatzky Published October 05, 2020

The problem

Paula and Dennis Arntz were having trouble staying afloat. To supplement their Social Security, the couple, both 67 and retired, were pulling at least $500 a month from their small bank account; their only other financial asset was a $25,000 variable annuity. Maybe, Paula thought, they could eliminate their $1,200 monthly mortgage payment and improve their cash flow by taking out a reverse mortgage on their home in South Florida. But she'd heard horror stories about reverse mortgages — a wife forced to move after her husband died, heirs shut out of their family home. “So many people say, ‘Do not do it,’ “ she says. Should they?

The advice

First, the basics. The most common type of reverse mortgage is a federally insured one known as a home equity conversion mortgage (HECM). It allows Americans 62 and older to borrow money against the equity in their home, with no obligation to repay as long as they live there. Once the home sells, the lender is paid back in full from the proceeds. Loans may come in the form of a lump sum or lifetime monthly payments and can also include a line of credit.

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Paula was right to be wary of reverse mortgages, which have grown in popularity in recent months but have a reputation that's been sullied by reports of borrowers misled about their risks and consequences, among other problems. Based on discussions with experts, I came up with a series of questions that potential borrowers need to consider, and determined how they apply to the Arntzes.

1. Is this your forever home?

Reverse mortgages are expensive (see the third question). If you or your spouse would want to move later on — or if your home isn't suitable for aging in place — you're better off selling and downsizing. The Arntzes, who live footsteps from the Intracoastal Waterway, can't imagine moving. “If he passed away, I'd stay, and vice versa,” Paula says.